The thought that shows up around 3 a.m.
New parenthood is wild — the sleepless nights, the tiny fingers, the terrifying kind of love. And somewhere in the middle of it, a quiet thought tends to show up: someone depends on me now. That thought is a good one. It means you're already doing the most important part of being a dad — looking ahead for the people you love. You don't need to be scared into this. You just need it made simple. That's our whole job.